I had a small get together at my house for my fam and a few friends. Well my cousin (basically brother) and my Uncle (his dad) drank too much and got into a huge fucking argument. I've literally had 2 miller lite's the whole night, I am sober as shit. And they were arguing over if my cousin has been a Clipper fan or not his whole life or if he is a bandwagoner. In the middle of this argument that was extremely heated I said to myself in a low voice "unbelievable". My cousin started coming at me fucking twisted and shortly after that him and his dad get into it to an extreme where they are at each other's necks. I tried talking to my cousin once they got separated and he straight up told me that he doesn't want to here anything I say and that it is my fault that his and his dad's relationship is now ruined. 45 Mins fast forward and now him and his dad are buddy buddy again which is really good but by the second I am getting more and more irritated at the fact he said it was my fault. I now he is drunk and all and at first it really didn't bother me but as literally every minute that goes by I am getting fucking pissed that I haven't got a simple sorry yet or I didn't mean what I said. Him and his dad are good, which is great, but my cousin has been fucking telling everyone that he has talked to that it is my fault for saying "unbelievable", and I can't get a fucking sorry or my bad. I am literally getting irritated right now. Don't know what to do. I'm not going to say something tonight but if I can't get a simple sorry then IDK. Irritated.
Just woke up and I'm not irritated or pissed. Maybe I was just in an overly sensitive mood or whatnot but yea lol.
lesson one. never try reasoning w drunk people lesson two. sports is never a reason to fight w family or anyone else for that matter
yeah, was going to comment last night when i saw this bdk but i figured the moment/emotions would have probably passed glad all appears to be okay
You know about lunar cycles and women? Well... drunks can mirror that behavior and neither ever think to apologize. One with sober up and the other we provide pads for... Leave the scene next time if it's too painful.
Best advice: stay out of other people's shit. A useful mantra for everyday life. Sometimes it takes years of practice to get it.